Okay ladies I have a serious question. First, a bit of background. This is my 3rd baby (finally getting our boy). And yes I know that there's a thing about not having a shower after the 1st child but I'm not on here for that. Anyway. My soon to be middle child is 15mo this old and her baby showers (yes there were 3) were disasters for multiple reasons. So this go round I'm hosting my own big one for everyone. My question is, do you send out save the dates?? I'm having to book a venue for it because I can't fit 100+ people in my apartment. I just want to know how you would take it if you received a save the date for a baby shower??