My guy friend I like is telling me love is a choice not a feeling and it ticks me off bc you can't choose who you fall for or who you love, you can choose to not love someone anymore by changing your thinking or by losing feeling for them but that's not by choice, and I feel like crap that they said that bc they are saying they don't know if they will choose to love me through the ups and downs as if that's normal. You choose what you want to do in relationships but you don't choose if you love them, if you love them that's bc you are supposed to not because you chose to...... I'm not the only one thinking like this right?