Okay this might be long but I need some advice. My fiancé & I moved to Oklahoma from San Diego in March when I was 6 months pregnant with our son. Since we've been out here we've went through a couple roommates since my fiancé was the only one working, we needed some help. So here's a little background. We've went through a few roommates since we've been out here. I should've just said no the last time but it's not my house since I don't pay any of the bills I guess. Another reason why I can't wait to be getting paid. Then no one can say shit. Anyways, we brought our friends out here. They're a couple & she's pregnant too. Yeah BAD idea. 2 pregnant females in the same house NOT a good thing. I was like 30 weeks pregnant & she wanted to catch an attitude with me because we weren't home to take her to her stupid job interview because I was having trouble getting the electricity turned on because SHE was bitching about not having electricity. So I got home & told her she could walk her happy ass to her interview, everything went south from there. ANYWAYS, they screwed us over. We paid 1250$ to get into this house NOT including the 1000$ we spent turning on all utilities AND all the gas from driving 1400 miles from San Diego to here. Not a single penny was given to us. So I told them they needed to get out. They stayed a month & a half. NEVER gave us their half of first months rent so we were struggling soooo bad for a little bit. Then My fiancé had his little 16 yr old friend from out here move in because his moms twacked out & he has a job. Well that lasted like 2 months because he's immature as shit & buying clothes or whatever teenagers buy was always more important than paying us his rent. So then fiancé wanted to fly his best friend Jake out. & he's cool or whatever. He pays his 300$ in rent thank god. BUT that's all he pays for. He doesn't pay for food. He only works 3-5 hours 3-4 times a week & only making 8$ an hour so when he gets paid he literally runs out of money in 2 days. Then after that he smokes fiancés cigarettes, uses our gas to take him to & from work, & of course eats the food. He doesn't eat much but he could buy his own groceries instead of us struggling to support everyone. THEN he never cleans his dishes, doesn't clean up after himself & they expect ME to cook them dinner. I don't think so. I told fiancé when we move out of this house in March when our lease is up & we find another house, we will NOT have ANY roommates. & he said well that's kinda fucked up. No it's not. He's 21 years old, we have a family & im OVER cleaning up after everyone & not getting appreciated for shit. He can get another job & support himself. It's NOT our job to support him. I told him if he doesn't like that then I'll get my own house & he didn't like that too much. I'm starting work on Wednesday & I've told fiancé I'm not going to be cleaning up after them all the time because I'm going to be tired & ive told him to talk to his friend & tel him to clean up after himself. He told me he would, I don't know if he has. But his dishes are still stacking up in the sink. He sits here ALL day until he goes to work at 5pm & sleeps ALL day then once he's awake he sits on the couch & plays on his phone. I'm so tired of it. I feel like now I have to get a job because my fiancé is too busy paying for extra food for him, extra gas, extra cigarettes when he could be putting that money towards stuff for our son. The whole point of a roommate was to have help but obviously we aren't getting that because my son is only 6 weeks old & i have no choice but to leave him & go to work so at least I can provide for my little guy & spoil him. It's just irritating because now that I'll be working, we don't need a roommate to "help" us because we will both be making more than enough money together. Can't kick out Jake because fiancé flew him out from Cali & he doesn't have anywhere to go. I've tried talking to my fiancé about stuff needing to change & he gets mad everytime I try talking to him & im being a "bitch". So please help me on how I can talk to him or what I should do. I'm going crazy & i just find it so inappropriate that we have our own family now but he still has to have his best friend live with us.