My SO and I have known each other for about 11 years. We didn't talk for about 5 of it. Then started hanging out and 2 months later moved in together. I know we moved pretty quickly. I didn't think it would be so bad since we've known each other so long.

Lately all we've been doing is fighting. He doesn't listen when u speak to him. Then gets mad about me getting mad. He's extremely emotional. It almost seems like he'd rather feel sad than happy if that makes sense.

I love him with all my heart. He's good to me. I'm just over the fighting. And him not listening to me. He makes decisions and doesn't think how it will effect my boys and me. Any advice? Sorry so long.