So I have an issue. I'm 25 and still a virgin 🙄, not because I'm waiting or anything. I have bad anxiety. Not even really about it hurting (which I don't think it will because I've been fingered plenty and have used a dildo a few times). I just get close with someone and start to freak out. I know most of it it due to being insecure about my body. This sucks and i don't know how to get over that ( I am working on losing weight). Also, I've messed around a few times and haven't been able to come. Yet when I masturbate it's amaze-balls lol. I just don't wanna disappoint the dude and I obviously wanna enjoy it. It's a little disconcerting to say the least. Am I overthinking all this??? I don't know what to dooo 🤷‍♀️😩