I'm beginning to think we will never have a consistent schedule... I keep saying, "oh after this one tooth comes in or after this growth spurt," but we seem to get thru one fussy period and then the next challenge comes. We also keep holding off on sleep training, among the other reasons listed above but also just came back from an international trip... going to take at least a week or 2 to get over the jet lag.

In a week or so, we want to try strict sleep training again because I don't mind as much him waking once at night but twice and then 530/6 am wake up is too much , starting to wear on me. Im also debating whether to put our little guy (9 months now) on scheduled naps, for many months we have been going by the every 90 min/2 hr rule but I'm debating whether he will become a little more flexible if we do scheduled naps. He gets so overtired still once he has been up for longer than 2 hrs. It makes it difficult to travel anywhere that's farther than 20min away because by the time we get there he is fussy after 30 min.

When did you feel like you had a schedule down and could rely on it? I'm dying to have consistency again/I'm starting work again in a month and need it.

Any advice is welcomed