HELP birth control (sorry long post)

Cynthia • I`m 33 my Husband is 37 we have 2 beautiful baby girls, and have 2 fur babies. First daughter conceived IUI. Second daughter is a miracle.

1st I am definitely not wanting anything hormonal. 2nd I'm not even sure I want any birth control at all. My husband and I had to seek out <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">fertility treatment</a> to conceive our daughter who is now 8 months old. Both of us had issues preventing us from succeeding on our own. My husband is content with only 1 child and I am/ am not.. ( I'm confused as to if I would like to have another.) I am exclusively breastfeeding and have not had a traditional period yet. I spotted for 3 days brown blood a little over a week ago. We thought it may have been implantation bleeding and I POS immediately no line ran out door to work less than 5 minutes after taking it. Later that evening I go to get it off the shelf and throw away and there is a tiny line (evap line) in that moment I hot scared. We checked again a few days later to be sure and yes not pregnant. One reason I got scared was I didn't know how my husband would react he knows there is a chance we could get pregnant since we are curently not using protection but it is a small chance at best. In the moment that we thought there was a chance he got excited and was urging me to test again so I could know if I needed to go get progesterone to help me keep it ( one of many things required to get/ stay pregnant last time) after we knew I wasn't he said we need to figure out birth control I told him I definitely don't want hormones we thought about an IUD again, but it makes me feel sick to even thing of that don't know why. He has condoms and spermicide in his night stand drawer I have even gotten one or other or both out and set on bed before we make love he continues to choose to not use anything. I have my annual exam scheduled today and want to discuss what type of birth control to go to so I tried to talk to my husband on my way out the door this morning I told him I definitely didn't want anything hormonal I am sensitive to it and also breastfeeding. He asked if I was still thinking about another IUD I told him that thinking about that was making me feel dread and uneasy for some reason. He told me to just forget about it and we will figure something out. What type if any of contraceptive would you choose? I'm so confused.