I had my 3rd miscarriage in January 2017 really want to try again and have at least one more child... my husband has had a hard time with jobs since I've known him... yesterday I really got discouraged and maybe getting it in my head that I won't have anymore children because now he's scared to have another... I really really would want more kids but now that's he feeling this way I feel devastated... I don't know where this is coming from since we been trying for awhile now and have gotten tested etc... so lost and confused what do I do??? he says it's cause he's scared of the what ifs... if baby comes out sick if we both pass on (I'm 36, he's 37) all these concerns that he's never had before... indont know where this is coming from and I feel lost and hopeless.... any advice??