First Time - Essentials?

I'm a new mom and while I keep finding lists of essentials, they aren't very specific. For example, I know I need bottles, stroller, crib, etc... but I'd love recommendations on brands/styles and why you prefer one over the other. I don't know all the little mommy secrets ;) Also is there anything you wish you'd had earlier that you didnt. Thanks! (I'm not due until next year, just trying to get a jump on things)