mil vs mom
Okay ladies, I need some advice here as I'm lost.
Justin and I are expecting our baby in October. We are engaged, loving together, and have a very healthy relationship. We decided to move our wedding up to before the baby is born because I am currently on my step father's health insurance but by september 26th or 27th his plan runs out as he is retiring- the state grants him one month of health insurance after that as a benefit to get himself established with a retirement insurance. That one month of insurance ends October 26th or 27th which is right before Greycen is supposed to be born. We knew this and that's why Justin and I opted to get married before the baby is born so that we aren't paying a lot Of money for the delivery.
Well, get this. Justin's mom who has worked in insurance for 20 years just comes to us after telling Justin that he isn't ready to get married and has been against us getting married this whole time and says that my mom is lying about jose (my step dad) not having insurance after October 26th or 27th when my mom is saying that that is actually what is happening. So Justin is all mad at my mom because he thinks my mom is just trying to get us to get married for the baby. I'm mad at His mom because she's causing so much stress for Justin and I that I can't sleep or eat.
I don't know what to do because Justin is going to believe what he wants to believe even though my mom is being honest.
So now I feel like my relationship with his mom is rocky because that's some sneaky shit she's doing but then again I feel like my relationship is rocky with him because both of our moms are telling us two different things. And here I am pissed off at everyone because Justin and I aren't children anymore and neither moms should be sticking their noses in our business.
These are screenshots of the conversation between myself and my mom which she's not helping the situation at all with her comments about how she never wanted me to be pregnant and married at 21, which I already knew and already know she's disappointed about.
I'm not looking for anyone to be like, "well you two are young and don't know what you're doing" "21 and 22 is too young to know anything" etc. That isn't actually going to help me here.
I don't qualify for Medicaid-ive tried.
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