So my bf that I've been with for awhile promised me he wouldn't do it, but I recently found out he has been. I can't help but feel t affects our sex life and we lose our "spark". It's not the jerking off, it's more so that he watches porn, it bothers me. I don't want that affecting our sex life. Thoughts? What are some ways I could spice things up so he doesn't need the porn? We tried new things yesterday and he said if it's like that every time he doesn't need it. But I get so nervous over the whole situation. Help!!