Is this abuse?

My partner shakes my head violently when he's angry with me. He reaches up so quickly that I think he's going to hit me and that scares me. It also triggers awful headaches. He knows this and he does it anyway because he blows up at little things. He wasn't like this before, but now he is.

And is "I don't know what else to do with my anger" a good excuse?

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