So my husband and I bought our first house together. We are so excited, but his parents are so negative I feel. They are upset because we are moving 35 minutes away from them with OUR kids.  Which isn't really that far considering I have no family in this state where my husband lives. My family is 15 hours away in North Carolina. After my husband got out of the military I supported him moving back to MO, so here we are. My husband's dad is in the mortgage business and flipped out because we didn't want to go through him to do our mortgage! Like slammed a door and threw a fit because my husband told him no, but we wanted to do this on our own with no help. They are thinking we are moving away for spite! Like come on it's 35 minutes and we are moving into the country and not living in the city anymore!! They are mainly upset they don't get to the youngest (who isn't even one yet) on demand and I don't really let them keep him with my step children because he is nursed and super attached to me! It is our choice! Plus they talk about how far the new house is from my husbands job. It's really only 10 more minutes for him, but at the same time my husband is 30 years old and can make his own choices. They don't pay our bills or put money in our accounts so I finally told them to mind there business. They are upset I don't want anyone over until I have things unpacked and semi organized. I feel like they just want to have an opinion, butt in, and ruin our happy experience. Ugh.....