I'm 13 and I have this friend who's a guy he's really into my friend but says he wants his first time to be with me. I've not had sex with him but he's gotten to 2nd base what do I do?

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I've let him kiss me and get to 2nd base but that's it he really wants to have sex with me but I'm not really sure because of all the risks there are I'm not sure if I'm overthinking it or if I'm doing the right thing.

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You're 13.....

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If he likes your friend, why is he being intimate with you??

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It sounds like he is just using you. Ditch him. you deserve better.

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Girl, you're 13, he's going to use you for sex...I know you're young but don't be naive.

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Tell him BUY Felicia... PLEASE dont have sex .... Your to young YOU HAVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE TO HAVE SEX .... Toooooo many bad things can happen ...

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🤦🏾‍♀️. I clicked the wrong option. 
A. You're 13. Enjoy your school and friends. TRUST ME BOYS WILL BE THERE
B. He is a fuck boy/douche bag in the making. He likes your friend but wants your body?!
C. Don't take it any further than it has gone. You'll thank me later.

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Ask your friend that he is into 😂😂😂

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You won't have any risks to worry about if you engage in sex correctly with a condom out on correctly, but you're too young to be having sex and I know in this generation that a lot of young females lose their virginity early like it's a trend and it's not! Don't worry about boys. Worry about school because these little boys aren't going anywhere! Trust me! And your friend is gonna turn up pregnant. Want it to happen to you ? 🙄

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If he's not planning to stay with u and only wants u for sex tell him off and especially if he wants to date ur best friend would u really wanna hurt ur best friend by sleeping with her bf and her not being his first

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I don't know about you but I would not want to have sex with someone who I know likes someone else. More than likely, after he gets what he wants from you he'll be satisfied and go after your friend, giving him everything you want and leaving you hurt, used, and alone. Then, if your friend likes him back, you'll have to watch them together all the time and hear about how now she's the one having sex with him. And, I know it's cliche but y'all are way too young to be doing that anyway. Plus, regardless if your friend likes him back or not what if you get pregnant? Nothing is 100% effective. Accidents happen all the time. The point is, you're too young and you shouldn't get yourself in an intimate situation where there's already another female involved.

I'm 13 and I have this friend who's a guy he's really into my friend but says he wants his first time to be with me. I've not had sex with him but he's gotten to 2nd base what do I do?

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