Married but wanting to explore? Normal??

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I've been married for almost 3 years. But we've been dating since I was in middle school. He was my first and only. But I kinda want to explore... like having a girl go down on me or messing with another guy? Idk. Is this normal? I feel like a horrible person...

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This sounds like you're subconsciously regretting getting married to the only one guy you have slept with before you had chance to explore.

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sounds like you might be regretting not exploring more before marriage. how does your husband feel and have you talked to him? you need to really think before you do anything, because you DO need to be honest with yourself and your needs, but just do it the mature way. if you decide you need something else, be honest with him first. don't blindside him.

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All I will say is, the grass isn't greener!

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normal for your situation. i married the first guy i ever seriously dated and he was the only guy i ever had sex with. I got the 7 year itch. acted on it. divorced the guy, and later met someone who has been much better for me.

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I think monogamy works for some people, but some people work best in open relationships. So it's really dependent on your marriage. Id ask your husband what he thinks about opening up the relationship in some way.

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:/

Married but wanting to explore? Normal??

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