Do women 'victimize themselves'?

Kate • 🎀 baby girl born December 22nd🎀

I was scrolling through the explore page on Instagram and came across a video and some comments that really rubbed me the wrong way. The video (which was animated and completely made up, by the way) showed a husband doing everything he could for the wife and kids, the wife eventually cheated on him, left him, took the kids and all their money, and basically shut the dad out of the kids' lives and blamed him for everything. The video was created by a man and the comments were appalling.

So, what do you guys think? Is this how it goes down in most situations? The one comment that made me the maddest was the man who said that women have all of the power and that's the problem with society these days. Opinions?