So fed up of my MIL and SIL planning things between themselves, organise it all and then tell me and my OH!

I'm not fussed about being overly involved in plans but at least make sure that we're going to be free before organising family events. Not organise everything then expect us to be free. Now missing out on what would have been a lovely time because neither of them think to give one of us a text/call to mention these potential plans. As long as they're happy..

We're not a 16 year old couple anymore. We're adults who do and will have plans!!