No sex from SO

My partner never initiates sex with me and it's getting to the point where I just feel so unattractive and unwanted by him. It's making me upset to think that he doesn't want to be intimate with me unless I force it. So I've taken a stand this week and told myself no matter what that I will not initiate it and still nothing. We shower together and fool around and I try to tease him thinking it might make him want something but he just doesn't... What do I do?😔