Question

Hi ladies,

I always trusted my husband, he never gave any reason not to trust and he is a good man.

Yesterday, I was looking at his messages with his friend (male) and they send to each other videos and pictures of naked women. I also see them saying that when going to the beach or pool they like beer, sun and buts (seeing buts). That really affected me, I feel somewhat betrayed because I see he is checking on other women bodies. How woud you deal with this? I told him and we had an argument. He apologized and said they were joking. I do not feel like talking to him today...