...I was asked this question by his mistress...

If you are not already aware, I have a crappy S/O (see my previous post). In my post I did not reveal the race of my S/O's side chick because to me that fact was a non issue...

Mostly because SHE"S SLEEPING WITH MY S/O!!!

Ladies - I have a lot to say about this topic but not for the reasons you think. I was raised in an affluent predominately white Southern New Jersey suburb. My parents raised us to have a kind heart for ALL people - no matter how they differ from me.

Needless to say I experienced a full spectrum racism as a child. Yet I never let it change me. As such, I had all "color" friends and never really allowed skin color change my perspective which was "all people have the potential to be good, and all have the ability to be sinister - either way it's not my place to judge. Be good to all!"

...but ladies... this questions has me in a shitty place and I'm looking for your perspective. The fact that she's knowingly sleeping with a married man and somehow thinks that I care if she's one color or the other. All "color" women have vaginas... In my case a white woman happens to be attached to the vagina that my S/O finds interesting...

...you see how the word "white" seems to fade away in your mind as you get to the words "vagina that my S/O finds interesting"...

Really - who gives a f#c%!!!