So I accidentally found out that my family has been planning a surprise baby shower. My husband left his email open and all I saw was the subject line of the invite. I don't know anything else. Part of me thinks this is great- I generally love surprises, and its a sweet idea. Unfortunately I have been feeling anxious about it lately. Did they invite the friends I would want there? This is probably going to be my only shower except for one at work, so I dont want anyone to be offended. Should I get a dress? I'm a teacher and starting a new position this fall (technology resource) so I'm also worried I might be overwhelmed with the new school year starting. Should I tell my husband/mom? I just feel like there are so many other unknowns with this pregnancy and work right now, maybe I don't really need another one...