Idk what to do...

So I have about 2 days left of my birth control pills. I had to get a new doctor due to my insurance changing and apperantly I wasnt even supposed to be on the pill due to me having hemiplegic migranes. She wont prescribe me any until I see a neurologist. I just feel really down. The pill really worked for me I'm too scared to do the shot, the implant or the IUD and Ive heard bad things about the mini pill. I just dont know what to do. My doctor is pushing the IUD but I really dont want to do it. My boyfriend hates condoms he says they fit too tight even the magnum ones. Is there anything else we can do. Anyone ever tried just spermicide or anything else other than condoms....Im just really disappointed and need some advice...