I've had orgasms when getting myself off, plenty of those. And when my guy and I have sex, I have little Orgasms from clit stimulation. And sometimes when I pee after sex I have a little bit of a real orgasm. I've just never had a real orgasm during sex!!! And the sex is amazing with him and even with other partners I've never had the big O. Any of you lady's wanna share some secrets on how to get there?