Not breastfeeding!

I'm a single mother by choice and life's going to be hard enough doing this alone, but I've decided to not breastfeed to help with my stress and sanity raising a newborn alone. I seriously have had the hardest time finding any articles where it seems breastfeeding is your ONLY option. It's like you're a bad mother or the antichrist for not breastfeeding! Even in my birth plan I stressed heavily for the medical team to not pressure or mention breastfeeding to me. I've put my food down. It seems as much pressure a breastfeeding feeding mother goes through, a non-breastfeeding mother goes through the same hell! Let every parent how they want! Loving a child is the most important thing you could do. To each there own!