Help please! How to wean toddler?!

Brittany

I reached and past my nursing goal with my toddler but he won't stop nursing, I've been trying to distract him by keeping him in activities all week, telling him he's to old to nurse and offering food to him constantly! I think it's helped slightly but he still begs to nurse at least 7 times a day, it's so sad when he says "bub please mommy" then cries if I don't nurse him😭💔

I've also tried apple cider vinegar and cabbages both which stunnkk baddd!🤢 and seemed to work the best but he still cried when he'd lean in to nurse and smelled the cabbage or apple cider vinegar... i read that weaning can be a traumatic emotional experience which scares me :(

Thanks fellow mamas for any advice!