So I'm trying to figure out this whole divorce thing. My husband is having an affair with my former neighbour and friend (yes still ongoing despite many times telling me he wasn't and acting like he wants to reconcile). My problem is we have two young kids so there is still plenty of reason to talk to each other. He seems to think we can be friends and every time i slip up and talk like we are I end up hurt cause I have to remember, he's got someone else. Any ideas how to not talk to each other? we message mostly but can chat when picking up the kids. I need advice on how to distance myself. I already moved out. tia