have you ever done something against your partners wishes that you knew he/she was against even if its benefits your life in the long run? my husband is very very against smoking pot, im very much for benefiting from the medical values of it! after 6 years of staying away because "he told me to" i find myself using it again to just help me cope with life. hes not working, im working full time caring for my 2 kids all day plus 2 more as a nanny, and coming home and taking care of the house as well with zero help from him.... iv been struggling with depression, anxiety, chronic pain and insomnia, my dr is ok with it and wants to start setting me up with a license for it tomorrow but unfortunately i know hes going to fly off the handle when he finds out iv been doing it again 😭