How find third person for threesome???

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Ok so I know this subject does fire up some people but my SO have been thinking of having a threesome 😱😏. Yes we have been very open and communicative on the subject and set boundaries and what not, the only problem we have is finding a women to do it with! I've tried dating apps that are specifically for threesomes and did a little pondering on Craigslist ( yes we will all get tested beforehand to make sure we're all clean ) but we've had no luck 😒! And we didn't want to go in Tinder or POF seeing that we know so many people on there and don't want our business out there. So I'm hoping you ladies who have had experienced this would be willing to give their recommendations on how to find our "unicorn" lol. Any advice would be appreciated 😊

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If you had no luck and could not find nobody that must be God trying to tell you something before you ruin your relationship

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It changes things after. We communicated too, we were both excited and once it came to it and shit started happening. The full 3 some didn't go down cause I decided not to anymore. Just seeing your man with another female just triggers something in you.

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you just have to wait and find someone in real life imo. ive had a couple 3sums that just kinda happened without ever looking for it. ive also had couples approach me online before, asking if id join them and i hate that tbh. id never be into being recuited by a couple who are on the hunt to spice up their lives and scour the internet. lame. id just go to a bar or something honestly if thats what you want. if youre not polyamorous and dont intend to invite the person into your relationship you want them to be as disconnected from your life as possible. a lot of people cant handle an ongoing thing and if something develops youll want to be able to easily cut this person out

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Try the Feeld app 😊 my bf of four years and I found an amazing girl on there! Her, my bf and I are now super great friends (we also do things together as a group beyond the bedroom). Just last week her and I went to the LoveShop together 😏🙌 and to everyone who says it changes you or it will ruin a relationship were likely not fully ready for this experience. You have to discuss boundaries all together so everyone is aware of what can and what cannot happen 👍

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Craigslist. They have an intimate encounters sections. Or a dating site. 
Just make sure that you do a background check on whoever it is. Also, ask them to send you a pic of their drivers license, as well as several different pics of themselves.

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Honestly I'm in the same boat.

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We haven't been able to do it yet, since we're now expecting and will need some time after. 
Prior to being TTC, a coworker recommended the "Feeld" app. She met couples on there. 
It's tough finding someone that meets your guidelines, but you have to make sure it's exactly what the two of you want and what the third wants as well. Be solid in your guidelines (one time only thing, not someone you know, no more affection to this person, etc) though I'm sure you already are. 
Good luck!

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You should look for swing clubs in your area.  Some of them have chat rooms and online communities where you can meet like minded people.  Or you can have a fun night out with your hubby at a place like this and see if anything spontaneous happens.
I personally couldn't handle it - I am too jealous!

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I think its a good idea to try out ;)

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There could be some websites online that you can check out. Make sure you check the person's background out thoroughly when you pick them. Have fun and please be safe

How find third person for threesome???

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