So I go visit my mom and younger sister in a few weeks and it's like the only vacation I'll be able to take for a while because I had to fight to the nail to even get just a week off from my job because it's summer and a lot of people are obviously putting in for vacation time. My mom called me a few weeks ago and told me that she now has a homeless, ex-drug addict man and his 4 sons staying in her one bedroom apartment. All sorts of alarm bells are going off in my head. For starters, it's just my mom and my sister in a one bedroom apartment with a man and 4 boys 16-10 and that sounds unsafe to me. Because I have now clue and neither does my mom what these nasty boys and druggie are sneaking around doing at night. She told me she understood why I would be uncomfortable with that, but then she called me hateful because I told her that I don't want them coming along with us when me and her and my sister do stuff together while I'm down there. My defense for it: I willingly took time off of my job where I could be making money to spend time with my MOM and my SISTER, not my mom, sister, and the 5 guys that I don't even know staying with her. Oh, and I better add this bombshell: one of the older sons likes my sister and they're basically dating. Apparently how this bum and his kids ended up with my mom is that the two younger boys go to my mom's church and needed a place to stay because the dad isn't responsible enough or capable of holding down a job plus he used to do drugs so that's a thing. The mother is living in another city with her drug dealer/lover so she's gone and no one in their immediate family wants them staying with them. I've literally lost sleep because there's so many red flags about this situation that don't sit right with me. My mom thinks this is all okay just because the two boys go to church. Am I wrong to be upset? I know this is a long post, but I can't rant about this to anyone else because then I look like a heartless bitch who thinks this bum doesn't deserve help.