Ok so let me start by saying these are my two beautiful girls! Nevaeh who is 5 and Briseis who is 8 months.......Nevaeh has a different father and left when he found out I was prego with Nevaeh....my now husband was there when I was 5 months pregnant with her.....married today for 5 years.....BUT my siblings in law (there are 14) and step mother in law only comment on how our youngest looks like my hubby and never comment on Nevaeh only because she a Latina.........they always talk down about her never invite her anywhere with the other grandkids there are 7 they always leave her out and only want to include her sister.....keep in mind that my brother in law was married to a girl who had a baby by a different father as well and my SMIL made his life hell......and from day 1 she's hated the fact that I have a half and half daughter.......but her kids are mixed as well....every time I call her out on it she makes it my fault.....am I overreacting?????