Needing advice as kinda dunno what to do. On maternity leave and my manager has planned to go out for dinner all us girls from work. I want to go but I already made plans with my boyfriend to go to his house so his parents can see our son as they ain't seen him in a while as we been away. I planned this from the weekend and only yesterday my manager decided to go out on Friday. I'm not one for backing out of plans and I don't wanna disappoint his family who are really looking forward to seeing him. I don't drive and neither does my partner so it's not like I can go his and leave our son and come back all the way where I live to go out then go back and get him. Everyone is saying bring my son but I can't enjoy myself with a 6month old who wants to be out the pram and grabbing everything he sees. I can't eat In leave and then he starts moaning and I have to stop to deal with him. My parents have gone away so I can't even ask my mum to watch him for me. I feel so pressured into going and it should really be my choice to go but they keep saying we see tomorrow your coming. I know they are just gonna keep messaging me and pressure me. In to minds any advice?