Hi so I'm turning 14 soon, I'm going into high school, and I really want to find a boyfriend. Everyone my age has already had one. There are only two problems. The first one is I'm not really the social type. Like I can't just talk to people unless they uneciate the conversation. And even then my vocabulary for conversation pretty much consists of the words "cool" "okay" and "sucks" like I'm not good at social situations. The second problem is that all my friends tell me I won't get a boyfriend unless I'm willing to put out. And I'm not. I want to wait until marriage, or at the very least until college. But everyone tells me that I need to do it if I want a boyfriend. Including my guy friends. But I don't want to. So like, what do I do to get a guy without sex and being bad at talking? What can I do?