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So I was wondering what I could do to make my oral technique better for my SO. He is soooooooo good at it with me, I am worried I don't really do it as well. Got any Bj pointers? Also, is there a way to keep from being so shy about him being down there?

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Honesty? Whatch a porno. I learned a ton from dirty movies.

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One thing mine loves is when he's getting close to cumming I'll switch gears and put his balls (nuts? testicles? there's no pretty word for them) in my mouth and lightly suck on them, while using my hand to finish the job on the actual appendage. He can't ever contain himself when I do that. But yes, get comfortable with it and learn to like it, it'll make you better at what you're doing if you enjoy it

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Hands , Hands! Use your hands , as much as possible. Lol but no seriously , if your jaws start to get tired just stroke it. Make a firm circle with your hands. Also some men love it a little sloppy , the wetter the better it feels. Use numbing spray if you tend to gag alot. & when he's down there , just lay your head back , close your eyes and enjoy (:

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Focus on the head. Your mouth doesnt need to do anything else. Use your hands for the rest (get some spit going to keep down the friction) and move them in tandem w your mouth, he'll hardly know the difference. 
Use your tongue a lot, try different movements, like turning your head around the tip with your tongue going around the underside of the head, stuff like that. Experiment, youll figure out what he likes ;)
Focusing on his balls too when hes getting close is good, like that girl before me said. 
I have a bad gag reflex, like VERY bad, so ill take him as deep as i can go a couple times, then back back off again. I like to change it up a bit every little while, so he doesnt quite know what to expect and doesnt get bored, & it makes it easier on me too, since it takes a while to get him off. Hes a job lol. 
Oh and humming is good too. Or moaning. Just like if youre enjoying his reactions, be vocal about it. It feels great for him and helps calm your gag reflex to boot. 
Good luck ;)

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Have you asked him what he likes? Every guy is completely different. Communicate :)

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Twirl your hand around it not just up and down but around too while still using your mouth and tongue on him. My guy LOVES it, and gently squeeze his balls. If your comfortable and feel sexy that is what matters. When he's downtown just close your eyes and relax, enjoy it and don't try to censure yourself moan or give pointers whatever feels natural.

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Mine loves when i hold the base of his penis firm while sucking and i swirl my tongue around the tip, then i'll change it up and slide his penis between my boobs...i guess that makes him go crazy because he doesn't last much longer when i do that!! Lol 😜👌

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Try making your mouth super minty before, it'll make him feel tingling and cool lol. And use that tongue! It's there for a reason, it's not all about sucking.

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Do you like doing it? That's the first step...you  perform better when you want to do it! Plus, vibe with his body language and sounds! If he likes it, it will definitely show!

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Cover your face. Lol thats what I do, I dont want him looking at me lol

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