DON'T WANT MOTHER IN DELIVERY ROOM

my mom has this horrible cough that she will not get checked out keep sayings it's allergies which could be true . She won't get the tdap shot and refuse to wear a mask around the baby. I said well if u can respect that I'm sorry you can be in the room without at least a mask and she flipped out saying she has grandma rights etc and she is upset that I told her it will just be me and my husband. I don t understand why she being so selfish an stubborn it's about the babies safety any one else having these issues