Losing my mind!!

is anyone else at their breaking point with their long cycles?? i came off my pill in December, hubby and I have been ttc since with no luck. I'm currently on cycle day 48 with no signs of AF making an appearance...and BFN 😭 also has anyone had similar issues and still managed to get BFP? I'm starting to worry that something is wrong but here in the UK the doctor doesn't consider anyone "struggling" until it's been 2 years...im so frustrated and losing hope 😔 sorry for the rant but I'm in desperate need for other couples experiences with similar situations. thanks in advance xx