How do I convince my bf that I too want to go back to the gym and that we can do it together but he says no you are perfect not skinny skinny and not fat .. Slender but still soft where I like it .. But I don't feel sexy when I look at myself naked .. I miss being 115 .. I miss feeling slender I loved the gym even though I stuck to just cardio .. How do I convince him I'm not going to body build I just want to tone