Why can't I get pregnant?!?

Question

I turned 30 8 months ago and I still haven't had a baby... I was pregnant 3 times when I was 18 & 19. I couldn't not keep them. I was too young and not taking care of myself. The guy that happened with and I are no longer together, obviously, but he ended up being such a jerk so I'm kind of thankful. I'm not looking for anyone to tell me what a bad idea it was to make the decision I made... I know, trust me, I do. I am worried now that I can't get pregnant BECAUSE of what I did 3 different times. Is this true?! I got pregnant so easy before without even trying, and now that I want kids I can't get pregnant! My fiancé and I now are extremely active actually... and I'm sure that has a lot to do with it. We have been together for 8 years now.... u would think in 8 years with how easy it was for me before that I would have gotten pregnant at leased ONCE by now... what's wrong w/ me?! What am I doing wrong?!? What do I need to do?! I know I should go to a doctor but I'm nervous for what they might say... oh god... I don't know if I could handle it if a doctor told me I was not fertile, or something horrible like that. 
Is anyone else going through this too? What should I do?! Any advise is extremely well received. Thank you! Pray for me!!

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You may not be the issue. I just found out my so is the problem... 2% morphology. He's resistant to it but we've agreed if no baby by September he's taking fertilaid. It's a men's type of prenatal that helps with sperm. Maybe give that a try? Or have his sperm tested and just see.

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Most ladies assumes it's us but our significant other plays a role as well. My DH and I went to see a fertility specialist and turns out it was him for the entire 7 months TTC I thought it was me.

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Do you track your cycle to ensure you're trying at the right time? Have you tried ovulation kits to make sure you're ovulating when you think you are? Have you talked to your doctor about this? I'd start with these three things.

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The best thing to do is to talk with a dr. You might not like what they say but it's better than putting yourself down worrying you have done something wrong. Knowing helps healing. Good luck.

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Omg same!! When I was younger twice and I have a 10 year old! My husband and I have been trying over a year and still not
Pregnant and we've done 2 IUIs. I'll be 32 in November

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Girl I feel your pain! Same situation!! I've been with my man 17 years, we've gotten pregnant 3 time all lead to a miscarriage. The first time I was 19 and I got pregnant after being with him 6 months! We lost that baby and each time after I got pregnant like 5 years later. I'm 34 now and I don't know what's wrong and doctors don't either. It's not him we know that. But I worry it will never happen. I'm so tired of seeing negative tests. Nothing seems to work. Everyone just tells me when the time is right it will happen. Ugh it makes me so sad!! I am sorry for your loss and the pain you endure. But I'm right along with you.

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it may be age (which you're not too old to have problems) im 33. wondering the same thing.  you may have different habits from when you were younger that can affect things.  and you're with a different man,  has  he got into an accidental pregnancy in the past?

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**i meant to say "my fiancé and I are not extremely active right now sexually* BUT we were and I feel like I should have gotten pregnant at leased once in the 8 years we have been together and NEVER using protection, and not pulling out. TMI I know, but I need u to know to understand how crazy I feel NOT getting pregnant after all this time... so weird.

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