New to this group.

Been ttc for a year and 9 months this is my 9th cycle of clomid. Need prayers for my bfp this round don't really want another bfn. I'm 5dpo today been really gassy since 3dpo never been this gassy I know it's too early because it hasn't implanted but I think it could be a sing. 4dpo I had this pain on my right side don't know what it was. I Don't wanna wait too long to test but don't wanna test too early do you guys think 11 dpo is too early? That would be my bfs birthday and it would be great to tell him on his birthday. An if I get a negative I'd probably either wait for af or do another test 13dpo. Never been pregnant but really praying for bfp this month! Give me advice and if you ever been pregnant were you gassy this early? Anyways baby dust to all!