So I have a friend that said she wanted to throw me a baby shower. I'm due in Nov and we are down to 3 months left. If she is going to throw it, it'll have to be next month (sept) in order to give me time to see what else I have left to buy. But the thing is she hasn't mention it in a while and I doubt she is gonna do anything. I really want to have a baby shower but I'm thinking I'll just have to throw one myself. Should I ask her if she needs help planning and offer to pitch in or if she isn't interested should I just throw it myself??