Ideas for baby shower!! PLEASE READ!!💙💙

Okay so I am 22 +2 with twin boys. I found out I lost one of my baby boys at 21 weeks. I am working through my grieving process but I had already planned my baby shower so we are going thru with it even though it's extremely hard. I want to be able to celebrate both of my baby boys even though one has passed they both deserve to be celebrated. My question is how do I include my angel baby boy into my shower without it feeling like a funeral. I don't want to pretend like he isn't still in me and like I won't be birthing him as well or just acting like I only had one baby to begin with and honestly I don't like people pretending either. I love talking about them both it helps me cope.

If you have any ideas please let me know I tried googling "ideas for baby shower after the passing of a twin" but came up with nothing.

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Please don't judge I know this idea may seem crazy to some but it's one of my ways of mourning and accepting what I'm going thru.