Marine wives, fancees, or girlfriends!

Im looking for wives, fiancees, or girlfriends of marines! My fiancee is in the process of joining and i would like to talk to others that is going through the same thing as me or already have. I have so many questions to ask! Like should we get married before or after? Should we start a family before or after he joins? Should we wait till the first deployment? Very scared future marine wife right here... any advice or help would be greatful!:)