So my friend of several years was talking to me the other day. She knows that my husband is very trustworthy and when we go out for a girls night I have freedom to do whatever I would like but I haven't ever done anything but dance with guys and she knows that. Well I am a little on the bigger side and my friend is twig skinny and she knows I'm self conscious about my weight. I know that he wants me to lose weight which I was doing until I got pregnant and started to gain some back until I knew exactly what exercises it was safe for me to do, due to being overweight and asthmatic. So I feel like he does want to be with someone that is skinnier and smaller like I was when he met me in high school but I don't blame him I know I have gained a lot of weight and didn't take care of myself for quite a few years. Well she is also pregnant and has a kid to another guy and is now going to leave this new baby daddy so she isn't in a great life position to have a child at all.