okay so with my daughter I chose a woman ob/gyn (personal reasons I feel more comfortable) the actual dr only saw me at the end of my pregnancy and when got a cerclage (high risk) i was being seen by the medical practitioner well since that pregnancy she would comment little things like you shoudl consider getting your tubes tied, lose weight, can't gain too much etc small things like that. so after birth of my Dr i kept her as my primary Dr. well I was going to go through gastric bypass cause I was feeling really insecure of my weight I tried losing weight on my own. anyways I was to get the surgery this Sept. well I found out I was pregnant a week or 2 ago. when I went in to make sure I was pregnant she (practitioner) started making faces and saying again you're pregnant and now you cant do the surgery and made me feel really shitty. I wasn't ttc I was on bc and even taking plan b when I felt my hunny would cum too much. my question is can I switch Dr's or should I just ignore it and deal with it? she really made me feel uncomfortable but in my area there's very few women obgyn...what shoudl I do??