Not baby ready yet but need opinions...

Kori

ok so my wife and I are about 1-2 years away from beginning our adventure on starting a family. But she has had issues with herself that make her feel like she is going to be inadequate for the baby and I wanted to get some outside points of view. My wife is the more masculine of the 2 of us. she struggles with this: Is she going to feel like the baby is her's? I know she will be an amazing mom and I try to act as a reassurance for her but maybe someone can provide a positive outlook on here for her. are there any mom's here who struggled with the same thing? Thank you :) BABY DUST TO ALL!!!

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Je

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Hi Kori - to clarify, you are saying that YOU will carry the baby, and that your wife (being more masculine/dominant energy) is fearing a lack of attachment toward the potential baby? It's understandable to feel insecure about that, but you should be able to write both your names on the birth certificate, and have the same last name if desired, and officially be the adoptive mother, and remember that LOVE and PARENTING are never soley biological connections. It's the bond and care that create a parent and child relationship. 💜