So I separated from my husband back in feb because he was cheating on me. said we'd do the whole reconcile thing but he was still with the other woman. He won't sign separation papers (he pays child support and works with me well on things) and he won't admit in any legal way to having an affair. He wants to be friends, talk and things about more than just kids. I don't mind for the most part but how do I just quit? come Feb I can file for divorce (the one year separation) but I don't want to. I'm making decisions based on his actions but then his actions change a bit. He says he's sometimes happy, he sometimes wants me back, etc. how do I just move on?