I found out a couple of days ago that my boyfriend cheated on me. With a girl that was his best friends ex girlfriend. I let him go to a friends birthday party and this girl was there, which I wasn't worried about any of the girls there bc I trusted him and I just knew he would never do anything like this to me, or our family (15 month old daughter) to jeopardize everything we have together. Well I was wrong, and now I have no clue what to do. I also, a couple of months ago, went through his phone when he returned from out of town work to find he had texted a hooker, that he blamed on his friend. The texts say that he never went through with it but it still almost happened and I believed it wasn't him! I am so disgusted, embarrassed, ruined, broken. Part of me says there is no way in hell I will ever trust him again, while he's begging me that he is sorry and he is really promising to make this work. I feel like I should give him a chance, but at the same time I know this will not work without trust and I feel so betrayed. So hurt. I never want to have sex with him again. I am so confused. Have any of you experienced this? Did you work it out? Did it get better? Did you leave? I need opinions on what to do... thank yoj