How do I stop provoking my husband to yell at me

I want to talk about my feelings to him but he starts to yell at me and I can't take it. I said I want to go to couples counselling and he got angry and because I didn't stop talking he yelled at me. He said I provoke him to yell and that I should tell him in a different way. What way should I say it? I can't figure out how to say it differently. I also told him if I'm moving in I need help to make room for my food because there's lots of things I eat that him and his family don't eat. Every time I bring one or two things they never fit in the fridge or freezer. We have a baby on the way I'm 37 weeks pregnant and he said we can only stay at my parents for 3 weeks and he will unleash his anger if it goes beyond that. But I need to have food for when I move to his place. We're moving into the basement but the person downstairs still has to move so we might be upstairs with his parents for a while.

I don't want to argue with him but I want to be able to speak to him about things without making him yell. I'm starting to feel depressed