Just some questions I'm hoping to get answered

Hannah • Currently just trying to get my body to do what it`s supposed to. Lesbian.
Hi! Well, my name is Hannah. My girlfriend and I are currently in a long distance relationship, but it's thankfully coming to an end soon! We aren't even thinking about starting TTC yet for obvious reasons, but I was wondering if any of you could answer a few questions.
If you have PCOS do OPKs work for you? 
Well, I live in Alaska, and she'll be moving here permanently. We have no sperm banks here. 
How would we go about selecting and obtaining the sperm? 
How did you find a doctor that was "tolerant" of your situation? 
I've been doing some reasearch on pills that help with conceiving and fertility. 
Can anyone recommend certain pills?
How did you get the second parent to be legally recognized as the second parent?
Was finding a "tolerant" hospital to give birth in an issue for anyone who ha had their baby or is pregnant now?
How did you decide who would carry the baby? 
Does having PCOS make <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a> or at home insemination harder?