What would you do

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I've been messing around with an ex for about 7/8 months (known him for 5 years). Just found out my birth control failed and I'm pregnant, 4 weeks. I feel like I don't have any option other than abortion because I'm barely holding everything together with my two daughters (ages 4 and 2).
My ex didn't explicitly say he wants me to get an abortion but I know he does. 
I don't want to be a single mom to a third child or make a guy feel trapped by a baby he didn't want but I also don't think I can emotionally handle having an abortion.

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what about adoption?

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Your decision shouldn't be made based on what strangers on an app think. It is your body, baby and life you'll know what's best for you

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I'm not saying it'll be the best thing ever but I recommend going in now if you're interested in terminating so you can use the pill option and not a D&C.; You know the right option for you and your girls, it's your body. It's a hard choice so good luck.

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There is ALWAYS another option. Get in touch with an adoption agency- there are even websites where you can direct connect with prospective parents. If you want more info, I will be HAPPY to research for you! So many women cannot conceive but want so desperately to be moms. Your baby already has a sporadic heartbeat. Please consider ALL options rather than just aborting your baby. I know pregnancy will be rough but if you do this soon, there are people who will completely pay for all of your prenatal care. I know you feel hopeless, but abortion isn't the only option you have.

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I don't think this is the best room to post this. There's an ABORTION support group that may be better suited for this conversation. I don't think a lot of pregnant women are going to sympathetic to your post and poll to vote off your baby like the show Survivor.

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No one can make this decision for you.

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if easing the baby is the only problem and you're okay with carrying the baby then i'd suggest adoption, that way you don't feel the guilt for having an abortion while most importantly helping someone who can't help themselves! overall it's up to you to decide what's best for you and the babies you're already raising!

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You do whatever you think is right for you. Not for others on an app.

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It's really only a choice you can make.  Remember it's three choices,  not two; abortion,  adoption,  and keeping it.  Any one you pick is going to have an emotional impact,  choose the impact you can live with.

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