Should I have sex with my boyfriend? I'm 16 and so is he

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I'm so scared I don't want to. It's part of my culture and religion that we can't have sex until we're married. If my parents found out /they will find out they wouldn't trust me and they'd kill me.

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Don't do anything against your morals. Just because he is your boyfriend doesn't mean you are obligated to give him sex

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Only if you (and he) really want to.

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You answered your question. You said you don't want to, there's nothing wrong with that, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

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Then don't do it! I was 16 when I had sex and I got pregnant, trust me it was not fun and games to raise a baby and nope the dad was not around after don't do it if I was your age again I would deff not do it and I would wait until I was older.

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Don't feel pressured into having sex if you don't want to! You'll probably feel really bad afterwards and you cannot get your virginity back. Maybe you can do other stuff like oral sex or you guys can use your hands.

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No one can make this decision for you. It's between you, him and I'm assuming here, God (or Allah and others). I've been where you are. My grandad was a baptist minister and my whole life people expected me to be "perfect". I believe God made sex to be enjoyed, I believe he wants us to only do this in marriage because when you marry someone you are proclaiming to be faithful and to love that person forever. It may not be as sacred these days but when I got married a few months a ago I meant every word. So when you get married you are committing yourself to that person. Meaning less likely to be let down by that person. You are safer to be vulnerable and intimate in a married. 
You have so much life ahead of you and you know what right for you. Yes your parents respect is important but as far as personal things, it's only for you and God. Do not be afraid to say to your boyfriend that you aren't ready. If he doesn't agree then he is not worthy of you. You are a child of God and are so loved x

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If you don't want to then no.

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If you're not ready, then the answer to your question is No.

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If you aren't ready then don't do it.

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If you don't want to. DONT do it

Should I have sex with my boyfriend? I'm 16 and so is he

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